Why Do Kids Do What They Do?

Why Do Kids Do What They Do?

So God created man in his own image.
Genesis 1: 27

So…why do kids act the way they do?

It’s in their DNA.

Think about it. We are all created in God’s image.

There are 4 very good reasons why people do what they do.
We are rational, emotional, relational, volitional, and spiritual.

This creates a genuine need for respect (rational);  joy, fun (emotional); love and belonging (relational); freedom (volitional); and spiritual fulfillment (spiritual).

We can observe our children and discover which image element needs tending.

Listen to what your child or young person is saying:

“I’m not a baby…” translation: I’m growing up, I need more responsibility.

“Let’s go to the park…” translation: Let’s have some fun.

“Will you play with me?” translation: I miss you.I need time with you.

“You never let me….” translation: I need some freedom.

“Do we eat in heaven?” translation: I need to know more about God.

What our kids say gives us great insight into their character development and true needs.

Listening to their heart, lets us know how to pray for, parent, train, and interact with our kids.

That’s the thing about parenting, isn’t it? It is fluid so we must pay attention.

And…it is always about love.

If you are the parent or grandparent of a toddler to eight-year-old and would like to know how to raise your child with the love Jesus shows, “Love is patient, love is kind…” read Raising Little Kids with Big Love. It contains easily applicable ways to live out the attributes of love as described in 1 Corinthians 13.

We don’t just want to get our kids to behave. We want to go beyond that and develop their heart and character.

What techniques do you have for encouraging character development in your child? 


For more information on parenting go to Amazon and pick up your copy of Raising Little Kids with Big Love(toddler-nine) or Raising Big Kids with Supernatural Love(tween-young adult). 

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Lori is passionate about helping families build connections that last a lifetime. Lori connects with her audience using her natural warmth, transparency, humor, and straight-forward, faith-filled approach. She is a licensed parent and family educator, co-founder of 1 Corinthians 13 Parenting ( https://www.1corinthians13parenting.com ), author, parent consultant, and national speaker. Lori is the lead mentor mom at Moms Together
( https://www.facebook.com/MomsTogether/ ),a Facebook community. She contributes to many on-line and print magazines including: Crosswalk, Christian Parenting, Just Between Us, and MTL (More to Life). Her 4th and most recent book,Messy Journey: How Grace and Truth Offer the Prodigal a Way Home can be found on most on-line and brick and mortar stores. Amazon link ( https://www.amazon.com/Messy-Journey-Grace-Truth-Prodigal/dp/1625915233/ref ). Mostly, Lori is wife to Tom and mom of four, plus one daughter-in-love.The Wildenbergs’ home is nestled in the foothills of the Rocky Mountains. For more information on Lori, her parenting ministry, or to contact her head over to https://loriwildenberg.com/
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